Tag Archives: blame shifting

Projection and Trump’s snake story.

When someone shows you who they are, believe them. — Maya Angelou   Several times at his rallies, Donald Trump has done something out of character — he has delved into literature to make a point, specifically poetry.  Ironically, the … Continue reading

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Narcissistic abuse in Trumpistan.

Much has been written about Trump’s toxic psychology, specifically his malignant narcissism.  In spite of The Goldwater Rule (an agreement between mental health professionals to never diagnose someone they have not evaluated), so egregious is 45’s bad behavior that thousands … Continue reading

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Your Daily Dose of Crazy, Compliments of the Narcissist!

Originally posted on Divorcing a Narcissist Blog:
Oh Boy. If you ever wanted an up close and personal view of what that special kind of crazy that only a Narcissist can deliver looks like… it is your lucky day. I…

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Words as weapons.

If you were raised by narcissistic parents, you are probably familiar with these.  These are the words I heard from my parents (yours may differ somewhat but the devastating effect is the same).  I’ve broken them down into childhood, adolescence, and … Continue reading

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My DD calls me a narcissist, but is it her or me, of both of us?

From a text conversation I had with DD this morning: Me: Do you want to go to the pool today? DD: I will lyk (let you know) in a few, I’m trying to find a way to cough up $50+ … Continue reading

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From Psycho-Linguistics to the Politics of Psychopathy. Part 1: Propaganda.

Originally posted on Politics and Insights:
1. Propaganda Techniques Metacognition: We need to be mindful of how we think as well as what we think. While the term propaganda has acquired a strongly negative connotation by association with its most manipulative and jingoistic examples…

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How my NPD/ASPD control freak ex used a dog to gaslight me.

In 2011, when my parasitic MN/ASPD ex was still living on my couch, he decided he wanted a dog. We already had a dog, Dexter, who was an awesome black lab mix (he lives with my daughter and her fiance … Continue reading

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The “saintly” narcissist.

Old Peasant Woman by Paula Modersohn-Becker Not all narcissists are aggressive. Some are covert, and some use their “goodness” as a weapon. This type of narcissist is usually a woman, often a mother. You know the drill: guilt tripping, “look … Continue reading

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15 insane things I’ve been accused of.

I’m no longer too upset about the uprising against me and this blog by several ACON bloggers last week. In fact, now I’m finding some of their half baked accusations funny. Here are some of the more outrageous ones. I … Continue reading

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Eight fun games narcissists like to play (and one they can’t play).

Here are eight games that are lots of fun for one of the players: the narcissist who initiates them. And like the overgrown babies they are, if you refuse to play or appear to be winning their game, they will … Continue reading

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