Tag Archives: reblogs

Grey-rocking: if you can’t go No Contact.

Originally posted on Lucky Otters Haven:
Lately I’ve been hearing a new term in the narcissistic abuse community: grey rocking.  I don’t know if it’s a new term or not, but I haven’t heard it before. How to Grey Rock…

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My Seasonal Affective Disorder makes me want to hibernate until spring.

Originally posted on Lucky Otters Haven:
Graph I made showing my mood pattern throughout the year. It’s this way every year. I’ve been thinking a lot about my SAD. SAD is triggered by the lack of light and shortening days…

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When time stands still: 15th anniversary of 9/11

Originally posted on Lucky Otters Haven:
394261 14: A fiery blasts rocks the World Trade Center after being hit by two planes September 11, 2001 in New York City. (Photo by Spencer Platt/Getty Images) Not too long ago, one of…

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Grandiose and “vulnerable” narcissists: how do they differ?

Originally posted on Lucky Otters Haven:
Both the beggar and the king could be narcissists with a different M.O. An interesting article in Psychology Today explains the difference between grandiose (invulnerable) narcissists, and “vulnerable” narcissists. Either can be somatic or…

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2 weird dreams I had as a kid.

Originally posted on Lucky Otters Haven:
  I was a weird, sketchy kid who had weird dreams. When I was about 5 I had a dream about something called a “clout” that looked like an oversized steel wool pad. It…

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Trump Administration takes the first steps towards implementing theocracy in America

Originally posted on The Secular Jurist:
By Robert A. Vella The very first amendment to the U.S. Constitution, as part of the Bill of Rights ratified in 1791, states that: Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion,…

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Does unrestrained capitalism restore feudalism?

Originally posted on Citizens, not serfs:
The novel “Capital” and the BBC dramatisation is a good portrait of modern London. A two class society consisting of an upper class and an insecure servant class recruited from the world’s desperate poor. …

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11 ways blogging has changed my life.

Originally posted on August 16, 2016     Next month will be Lucky Otter’s Haven‘s 2 year anniversary! It’s hard to believe I’ve been blogging that long. I started blogging only 6 months after going No Contact with my ex. … Continue reading

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Jessica’s last words

Originally posted on Her mission is our mission:
On March 10, 2015,  my daughter Jessica took out a piece of paper and wrote out one last letter to me. She used a pink marker (her favorite color) as she jotted…

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How to Spot an Abuser Who Claims to be the Victim

Originally posted on A Cry For Justice:
(My thanks to Barbara Roberts for her help with this article) I am sure that you have watched police SWAT teams in action at a hostage situation.  As the hostages emerge, a strange…

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