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Was Betty Broderick actually a victim of narcissistic abuse?

Originally posted on September 27, 2016 Dan and Betty Broderick at their wedding, 1969 Sometimes the delineation between being a narcissistic abuser and having been a victim of narcissistic abuse is not very clear.    A famous example is Betty Broderick, … Continue reading

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I think Melania Trump is an abused woman.

I think Melania Trump is showing signs of PTSD.  Watch the way she flinches and looks uncomfortable when her husband passes her and touches her arm, before she starts to recite the Lord’s Prayer at the Trump rally in Florida … Continue reading

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Is Donald Trump Abusing His Wife Melania?

Originally posted on Beyond Highbrow – Robert Lindsay:
I would say that he treats her like dirt, shit, crap, garbage, whatever metaphor you prefer. He barely even acknowledges her presence. He walks ahead of her in public – this, according…

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Sometimes I miss him.

My ex husband was and is a malignant narcissist who actually has an NPD/ASPD (and Bipolar) diagnosis.  He almost destroyed me and my sanity with his constant gaslighting, verbal abuse, projection, lies, insults, mean sarcasm, threats, and refusal to lift … Continue reading

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Was Betty Broderick really a victim of narcissistic abuse?

Dan and Betty Broderick at their wedding, 1969 Sometimes the delineation between being a narcissistic abuser and having been a victim of narcissistic abuse is not very clear.    A famous example is Betty Broderick,  the jilted wife who broke into … Continue reading

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When the Narcissist uses God Against You

Originally posted on Divorcing a Narcissist Blog:
Before I met the Narcissist I pretty much identified as Atheist. I grew up being somewhat forced into the Catholic religion because my mom was raised that way. I think she felt like…

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How my ASPD/NPD control freak ex used a dog to gaslight me.

Originally posted on Lucky Otters Haven:
In 2011, when my parasitic MN/ASPD ex was still living on my couch, he decided he wanted a dog. We already had a dog, Dexter, who was an awesome black lab mix (he lives…

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Shattered Dreams Poetry and Book.

A reader of this blog wanted to share some of her poetry with me and I asked her if it was alright to share the poems with my readers because they really resonated for me and I think other readers … Continue reading

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Marriage counseling is another weapon a narcissist can use against you.

If you’re still with your narcissist, you may be tempted to insist they attend marriage or family counseling with you. It’s a common error to believe and hope the counselor or family therapist can help the narcissist understand your point … Continue reading

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“An Open Letter to My Abusive Husband”

A very courageous woman named Samantha wrote this “open letter” to her abusive, narcissistic husband which appears on her blog The Narcissist’s Wife, which I recommend for anyone trying to divorce or leave a narcissist. Her “open letter” had me … Continue reading

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