Tag Archives: trolls

On being controversial.

Originally posted on Lucky Otters Haven:
I don’t write to people-please. I did enough people-pleasing as a scared, awkward child and a codependent wife to a sociopath. Those days, for me, are numbered. I blog to be honest about myself…

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That one annoying commenter you can’t get rid of.

“Tiny Yapper” — Artwork by Mike Reed We bloggers probably all have at least one of them.   You know, that one annoying person who seems to disagree with all your opinions and just wants to argue but can’t seem to stay … Continue reading

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Sh*t haters say.

I have haters. I’m cool with that. As a person who was bullied a lot during my life I wasn’t always cool with it. I will never like being hated, but now I regard it as a hazard of the … Continue reading

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Replying to my haters.

Originally posted on Lucky Otters Haven:
Not everyone likes this blog. I have a few haters. The following are not really troll comments (which I delete immediately or don’t approve) but criticisms of me and this blog. (A few do…

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Blogging is not for pussies.

Whoa! I have another guest post on HarsH ReaLiTy? I’m dreaming, right? Comments here are disabled; please comment on the original post.

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Beware who you befriend on the Internet.

Not all ACON blogs or bloggers are “safe.” On another blog, which I will not name, my character is being ripped apart and an article I posted which was one of my most honest and vulnerable ones is being used … Continue reading

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How to deal with haters and critics.

I want to reblog this excellent article about how to deal with haters and critics.  Every blogger has them, especially if they write anything besides recipes or decorating ideas (and those bloggers probably have haters too). I’m a people pleaser. … Continue reading

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Being firm with spammers.

Yesterday I had a new commenter who I must have hit a nerve with one of my posts. Some of you probably know what I’m talking about. He or she comments IN ALL CAPS, says their keyboard is stuck but … Continue reading

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Trolls and lack of motivation.

I thought I had my lack of motivation all figured out, and thought I’d conquered it, but obviously I haven’t, since I’ve been posting a lot less than I used to and it hasn’t gotten any better. I can’t figure … Continue reading

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I am not the jackass whisperer.

I shouldn’t let one mean-spirited, sarcastic comment from a troll (even if there was a grain of truth on what they said) make me set a post to private. This person isn’t even a regular commenter here; they came out … Continue reading

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