Category Archives: blogging problems

But I like my widgets!

Almost every article that lists do’s and don’ts for bloggers says that having too many widgets and plug-ins in your sidebar is a big no-no.    They say they make your blog look cluttered and unprofessional, and even worse, they … Continue reading

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The awkwardness of being a Borderline ACON.

I won’t lie.  It’s incredibly awkward being a blogger who blogs about two things that seem diametrically opposed to many people in the narcissistic abuse community:  being a victim of narcissists, and having a Cluster B disorder (BPD).   To those of … Continue reading

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Search terms that make the hairs stand up on the back of your neck.

I just read a short post by another blogger who wrote that in her search terms, she found her full (real) name followed by “bad parent.” That’s pretty alarming and would suggest this blogger may be being stalked by someone … Continue reading

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