But I like my widgets!

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Almost every article that lists do’s and don’ts for bloggers says that having too many widgets and plug-ins in your sidebar is a big no-no.    They say they make your blog look cluttered and unprofessional, and even worse, they slow down load time, so that potential followers grow impatient with waiting for all your digital doo-dads to load, and go elsewhere.

It’s said that if you have too much “flair” in your sidebar, it makes your blog look amateurish.   It screams “newbie.”   New bloggers love widgets.   They’re eye-catching, colorful, and they’re a novelty that hasn’t had time to wear off.  Sometimes they also give a blogger bragging rights (such as those blog awards that only new or new-ish bloggers accept) or information that may be of interest to the blogger but probably not to anyone else (those little maps that you can click on for a real-time traffic report).

I’m guilty of having a lot of widgets.   I might even have too many widgets (oh, the horror!)  I like widgets.  They’re fun and I like the way they look, dammit. But I certainly don’t want to be seen as a “newbie” or someone who has tacky taste.  Or the blogging equivalent of some attention-hog on the road whose car bumper is obscured by bumper stickers.  I also hate the possibility of people growing impatient with the slow load time and going somewhere else in exasperation.  So last night I decided to say adios to some of my beloved widgets.

But I couldn’t do it.   Well, not much anyway.   I got rid of “community” and the friend faces under the Facebook Like box.  Also the captions under the awards because they were redundant.  And that’s all.   I simply couldn’t bear to part with anything else, no matter how useless or annoying they may be to my readers.   I love my widgets!   So they are going to stay (for now).  Suck it up, readers!  I probably won’t add any new ones though.

About luckyotter

This blog is my journal. I just choose to share it with the world instead of keeping everything inside my head. I'm a recovering Borderline and have also struggled with Avoidant Personality Disorder. I also have Complex PTSD due to having been the victim of narcissistic abuse for most of my life. I write mostly about narcissism, because I was the child of a narcissistic mother, and then married to a sociopathic malignant narcissist for 20 years. But there's a silver lining too. In some ways they taught me about myself. This blog is about all that. Not all my articles will be about NPD, BPD or other personality disorders or mental conditions. I pretty much write about whatever's on my mind at the moment. So there's something for everyone here. Blogging about stuff is crack for my soul. It's self therapy, and hopefully my insights and observations may help others too.
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14 Responses to But I like my widgets!

  1. Tony Burgess says:

    My widgets are stock WordPress.com widgets and they look like they go with the theme. The sidebar and widgets are a natural part of a blog. Don’t listen to the naysayers.

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  2. nowve666 says:

    Color me stupid but what exactly is a widget? Is that the little things on the right side of your page with all the clickable images like “Bullying Stops Here?” How do you put them up?

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  3. The top portion of your blog is very clean…I don’t see the widgets until I keep reading…by then you already have me so you can wave your “amateur” flag with pride.

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  4. Leslie says:

    I like my widgets, too

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  5. It’s a good thing that a blog is for YOU to make the way you want:) Keep it up!! love your blog.

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  6. hbsuefred says:

    I ignore widgets like I ignore most facebook posts. I know they’re there if I ever feel like looking at anything other than content that is important to me.

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  7. Widgets are the spice of life! I keep adding new ones and seldom get rid of an old one. Anyone who thinks widgets make a blog look cluttered and messy isn’t the kind of person who would find my blog interesting anyway. 🙂

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