Can we please move past all this drama?

olive_branch

I’m so very tired of rehashing this same stupid topic, but I’m asking those who have targeted me due to the article that offended you to please just stop writing such hateful comments on your blogs about me. I know you don’t believe it, but I’m on the same page you are. I’m a victim of abuse. I am not one of “them” even if you believe I am. I’m sorry my article was so offensive to some of you. I had no idea it would be THAT controversial. I understand not everyone is ready or able to move away from the anger and hatred your MNs caused you to feel. It’s not for me to judge your reasoning, just as it’s not yours to judge mine. I am asking you to stop judging me and I will stop judging you. If you stop writing hateful comments about me, I will stop going on the defensive and writing negative rejoinders. None of us are perfect. We have all been damaged in varying ways by abuse. Some show it differently than others. No one is the same.

I have nothing more to add. I’m not going to justify my reasoning anymore because it’s pointless. I just want peace and to be able to get back on track in my own recovery. If you don’t like this blog or the direction you see it taking, please don’t read it. We don’t all have to agree about everything. Can we please just move on now?