Song about narcissistic abuse: It’s In Your Head (introspectrum)


My friend who is in recovery from narcissistic abuse has started an indie rock band and has a great new song about her experience.

Here is what she has to say:

Hello everyone!!
I put a band together as a way to heal from Narcissistic abuse, after the Narc I knew told me I needed to give him my Gibson Les Paul and that I’d never play music in a band called, NarCissistic Mary. Here is the Sound Cloud link to my first studio recorded song called, “Its In Your Head” (Introspectrum). I will be releasing more songs shortly with my band. Please join me and will all journey together artistically and musically on my Facebook band page called: NarCissistic Mary (the capital C is intentional!)
Thanks 🙂

Here is the song on Soundcloud–enjoy! And please share.


About luckyotter

Recovering from BPD and C-PTSD due to narcissistic abuse from childhood. Married to a sociopath for 20 years. Proud INFJ, Enneagram type 4w5. Animal lover, music lover, cat mom, unapologetic geek, fan of the absurd, progressive Catholic, mom to 2, mental illness stigma activist, anti-Trumper. #RESISTANCE
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14 Responses to Song about narcissistic abuse: It’s In Your Head (introspectrum)

  1. Your adorable Lucky!! This is a great article…

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  2. Your adorable Lucky!! This is cute!!

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  3. nowve666 says:

    That was really good. Was this your studio recording. I got a lot more out of it this time. I didn’t get the story before. I really liked it.

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    • luckyotter says:

      I loved it too, it’s like a throwback to the 90s, very Nirvana-ish.

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    • Well,…the story really reflects upon repeatitive thoughts. Its actually called Introspectrum. Introspection is a real English word. But my real lyrics read Introspectrum.

      Disorders seem to occur when a person hits a point where they have an overabundance of feelings. Feelings, meaning Internalized spectrums (meaning the colors within that make us uniquely who we are). When interactions interfear with the peaceful colors of who and the pain becomes unbearable, we shut down and become lost in our thought process.

      In the end of the song the character becomes so caught up in thought process and realizes she has become a prisoner of her own mind as she hears the doors shut in an Insaine asylum.

      Anyway….that’s the general song meaning….that I wrote. I wrote the lyrics and tune on my acoustic guitar late at night in my room. And recorded it on my cell phone. Them brought it to the band and it actually came together in around an hour.

      Later I told them to shout, “It’s In Your Head”… And then I rambled the theatrical Monologue at the end.

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  5. Reblogged this on marypranzatelli's Blog and commented:
    Listen to my new song I wrote called “Its In Your Head”(Introspectrum). My band is called: Narcissistic Mary

    Follow our Band Facebook page for updates and follow Lucky Otters fabulous blog!!!


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