Borderline Personality Disorder is a serious mental disorder with its roots in childhood abuse (usually narcissistic or sexual abuse) and as you can see in one of the memes below, it shares much in common with Complex PTSD and may in fact be a variation of the same disorder.
But BPD is terribly stigmatized, with its sufferers being called everything from evil to incurable. Many mental health professionals refuse to work with Borderlines because of this stigma. They’re afraid of us! While some more aggressive borderlines can certainly do bad things to others and be manipulative, for people with BPD, their actions are caused by an inability to control or regulate their emotions, so they act out instead of thinking before they act. Many Borderlines are more destructive to themselves than to others. They can seem self-centered and narcissistic not because they lack empathy (many borderlines, in fact have an excess of empathy) but because they get too caught up in their own emotional turmoil to be mindful of others. Unlike people with NPD, they also don’t have a sense of entitlement. In fact, they often feel like they deserve nothing.
BPD is much more treatable and receptive to therapy than other Cluster B disorders like NPD or Antisocial Personality Disorder. Unlike those disorders, too, people with BPD can be helped by medication.
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