My bucket list (we all need one).

I’m reblogging this old post, mostly because Danny over at Dream Big wanted to see my bucket list (he just posted his) and wants to comment, but comments are disabled for posts that old. I did have to change #10, since the original #10 is no longer something I want to do. Getting over my fear of death seems like a good replacement, LOL!

Go visit Danny’s bucket list here:

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These are the things I want to do before I die. Of course, these are subject to change and new ones will come along!

1. Write and publish a book about everything I’ve learned from growing up in a narcissistic family and being married to a narcissistic husband.

2. Write a bestselling novel or self help book based on my own experiences.

2. Be able to quit my day job and make an income from this (or another) blog.

3. Go to an exotic or remote country, preferably tropical.

4. Sing in a karaoke contest. (People say I have a decent voice but it’s one of those things I never developed)

5. Learn a musical instrument.

6. Get married again someday to a supportive, fun-loving, non-narcissistic man, who likes to travel and is good at home projects too.

7. Buy a Bengal cat.

8. Buy a small but quaint home…

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About luckyotter

This blog is my journal. I just choose to share it with the world instead of keeping everything inside my head. I'm a recovering Borderline and have also struggled with Avoidant Personality Disorder. I also have Complex PTSD due to having been the victim of narcissistic abuse for most of my life. I write mostly about narcissism, because I was the child of a narcissistic mother, and then married to a sociopathic malignant narcissist for 20 years. But there's a silver lining too. In some ways they taught me about myself. This blog is about all that. Not all my articles will be about NPD, BPD or other personality disorders or mental conditions. I pretty much write about whatever's on my mind at the moment. So there's something for everyone here. Blogging about stuff is crack for my soul. It's self therapy, and hopefully my insights and observations may help others too.
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3 Responses to My bucket list (we all need one).

  1. S says:

    Lucky Otter, I love your bucket list. I share a few of your things to do, pretty much, talking about some of the very things I post here in the comments whether it be in a book or a video or something. I have this urge to get the word out!:) You’re lucky you have a good voice(I don’t but always wished I did). I will bet in singing it will help you heal even further, it will be another outlet for you. And I also hope to find a nice man again to settle down with. A lot has happened to me, but, I can’t lose hope. A bucket list keeps us future oriented and motivated. Great blog post idea!

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    • luckyotter says:

      Well, as for the singing, I joined the choir at my church–finally! It’s fun and is very healing!
      Never lose hope, and thank Danny at Dream Big for the idea! I needed to be reminded of these things I listed a year ago.


  2. Just Plain Ol' Vic says:

    Great list!

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