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I haven’t talked about this before, because it made me feel way too naked and vulnerable, but I am trying to heal myself of BPD using reparenting therapy techniques on myself.

I wrote an article last week about what this experience has been like (I’ve only been at it about a month). I would like those who have an honest interest in reparenting, self-reparenting, or using it for healing various disorders (Cluster B, most other personality disorders, and C-PTSD) using this form of therapy, or close friends who know me well to be able to read it. So I have made the article password protected. My understanding is that you need to actually know the password I created, not just your own WordPress password (if you have an account).  So if you want to read this article, which is of a deeply personal nature, please email me (see “Stalk Me” in the header) and tell me something about yourself and why you want to read it  (if I don’t already know you).

Then I’ll email you the password and link to the article.

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  4. I want to start by saying I like you a lot. You are Mary have become my favorite Facebook friends. I would like to link to your website. I have a whole section on Cluster B and my personal experiences with it. But I would like to know some things about you to best present your site. What do you consider yourself to be, you know, mentally. Are you a recovering victim of a broadsheet? Someone with aspergers?? Please let me know so I, can pretty you fairly. My Cluster b section it’s in the air.section. The site is divided by the four elements

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    • Hi Frances!
      Good to see you here, thanks for coming around. Mary and I think highly of you too.

      My bio explains everything. I’m a victim of narcissistic abuse (I was raised by a narcissistic mother and then married to a malignant narc psychopathic man for 20+ years) . Due to the abuse I developed PTSD on top of preexisting Avoidant and Borderline Personality Disorders. I also have Aspergers. So I’m quite f*cked up in the head. The Aspergers/Avoidant PD tends to temper some of the BPD symptoms.

      I’ll visist your site–I had no idea you had one! Thanks for wanting to link to mine. 🙂

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      • You both are great Facebook friends too. Your both really nice. You have to be careful as to who you trust on the internet, because I’ve experienced trusting the wrong people for support sometimes and it backfires because they turn out to be more abusive then helpful. I was just ready what some victim wrote on Vaknins page. She was reaching out for help. She’s been in an abusive relationship for 20 years with a cerebral Narcissistic man. She has no job. No friends. No money and she is isolated in her situation, and everyone was victim blaming her and beating her up. They were trying to help her though. I just don’t think they were going about it the right way.

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        • I noticed that too, Mary. I thought it sucked. 😦 You’d think victims would support each other more. The Internet is like a minefield, you have to be so careful.

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          • You saw that. They were mean too her. I was shocked to see them beating her down. They put her on a guilt trip. I told her to take baby steps to reclaim her life. The people who are commented understand the trauma she’s been through. I don’t get them.

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            • There’s a few toxic people who post there, unfortunately. It’s not just there though, on just about every narc abuse support forum/group/whatever, there are people you have to watch out for. The problem with the narc abuse community, is there’s a lot of he said/she said going on. How do you really know who the wolves and the sheep are? They both accuse each other of narcissism? You’d think there’d be more support but victims don’t trust anyone and are quick to suspect narcissism in a non-narc, or for there to be real narcissists lurking around. It’s hard to tell who’s who sometimes.

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