My dad is gone.

 

I just found out he passed away a few minutes ago. He wasn’t in any pain at all.
RIP Dad.  Love you.

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My dad at age 3 with his mother, 1930.

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My dad sitting at the table at their home, Summer 2005 (this was the last time I visited him there).    I’m standing on the right in the black T-shirt.

 

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About luckyotter

Recovering from BPD and C-PTSD due to narcissistic abuse from childhood. Married to a sociopath for 20 years. Proud INFJ, Enneagram type 4w5. Animal lover, music lover, cat mom, unapologetic geek, fan of the absurd, progressive Catholic, mom to 2, mental illness stigma activist, anti-Trumper. #RESISTANCE
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29 Responses to My dad is gone.

  1. Ritu says:

    So sorry for your loss…
    {{{hugs}}}

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  2. Im so sorry to hear your dad has passed, glad he went peacefully without pain. Take good care of yourself!

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  3. I’m real sorry about your Dad, it must be hard right now.

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  4. Marcus says:

    I’m sorry to hear about your loss. My father passed in his sleep – not sure that helped a lot, but I think it did some. My thoughts are with you.

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  5. You’re in my thoughts. xx

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  6. So sorry for your loss. Sending good thoughts your way.

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  7. survivednarc says:

    Havent followed you for a very long time, but still: I am very sorry to hear it. Sending you all the good thoughts I can.

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  8. I’m sorry 😔

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  9. melisdvash says:

    Sorry to hear about your loss, glad to hear it was an easy passing.

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  10. avaswan says:

    Oh I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you during this stressful time sweetie.

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  11. I’m sorry for your loss. Thoughts are with you. 😕

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  12. Joyce says:

    So sorry for your loss! ❤

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  13. uehobbyist says:

    condolences:-(

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  14. Tessa says:

    So sorry for your loss. May God be with you.

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  15. katiesdream2004 says:

    You mentioned he fought against Parkinson’s disease and worked hard to maintain as much health as he could. Therefore, if he was going to pass, doing so peacefully without months or years of being bedridden is a gracious way to depart. I’m sorry for your loss, sometimes the orphan in our heart reacts with an increased sense of isolation when the parent that wasn’t as narcissistic as the other or less abusive leaves. Take gentle care of your self in this time.

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  16. luckyotter says:

    Thanks to everyone for you condolences. I’m not that emotional because we hadn’t been that close in years, but of course I do feel sad and wish I’d got to see him one last time. I’m remembering the good times I had with him and there were some very good times.

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  17. Mysticalwriter says:

    Am so sorry to read about your loss, my thoughts & prayers to all of you.

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  18. shandraeats says:

    My prayers are truly with you. I lost my father six years ago today.

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  19. nowve666 says:

    {{{{{{{{Lucky Otter}}}}}}}}}}

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  20. I’m sorry for your loss.

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  21. Just Plain Ol' Vic says:

    You have my deepest sympathies! Sending positive vibes your way and giving you a big ol *virtual* hug.

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  22. Leslie says:

    I sorry to hear this sweetie. You have my prayers for strength and peace. ❤

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  23. gm1123 says:

    My condolences.

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  24. Izrael says:

    I’m sorry for your loss. I hope that you are doing better now. ❤

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  25. I saw your post on FB and had to come here to send my condolences. No matter how strained our relationships are with our parent(s), when they pass on it’s still a difficult loss, especially when it’s sudden or happens unexpectedly. (((((Hugs)))))

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