Inside the Mind of the Malignant Narcissist

Narcissist word salad–want oil and vinegar with that?

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Art by Rob Goldstein

Art by Rob Goldstein Found on Pinterest

Almost nine months ago I received an email from someone I thought was a friend. I had written her to tell her that I wasn’t feeling well and that I wanted to take a break from social media.

In short…I felt ill.

This is the email that I received in response:

Art by Rob Goldstein July 15th, 2015

I was stunned. She was no longer following my blog and she had told someone neither of us knew the lie that I no longer wanted to be friends with her.

I immediately recognized a triangulation and understood that I was dealing with a narcissist.

I didn’t know that I was dealing with a narcissist that would make my abusive
mother look like an amateur.

I can’t remove her as an administrator from the ‘groups’ part of my Flickr account and she refuses to leave.

I asked her in private to step…

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About luckyotter

Recovering from BPD and C-PTSD due to narcissistic abuse from childhood. Married to a sociopath for 20 years. Proud INFJ, Enneagram type 4w5. Animal lover, music lover, cat mom, unapologetic geek, fan of the absurd, progressive Catholic, mom to 2, mental illness stigma activist, anti-Trumper. #RESISTANCE
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