How are you supposed to feel when you had to go no contact with someone because they invaded your boundaries and then you find out they are in a lot of pain because of your rejection? I know it was the right thing for me and I had no other choice, but it still makes me feel like a damn heel.
I don’t expect answers; it’s a rhetorical question. I am not going to change my mind.
I guess this means I have a sufficient level of empathy, so there’s that.